क्या आप भी किसी boyfriend कि तलास में हो? लेकिन किसी लड़के को boyfriend बनाने से पहले ये जानना चाहती हो कि ek acha boyfriend kaisa hota hai? अगर आपका जवाब “हाँ” है तो अब हम आपको detail में बताएँगे कि एक लड़का एक अच्छा boyfriend कब कहलाता है. सबसे पहले तो आपको एक बात समझ लेनी चाहिए कि जैसे हाथ की सभी उंगलियाँ एक समान नहीं होती वैसे ही हर एक लड़के कि एक अलग personality होती है.
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Iske alawa aur bhi kyi baatein hai jo ki aapko kisi ladke ko apna boyfriend bnane se pahle dhyaan me rakhni hoti hai. Vo sab hum aapke saath is article – `Acha boy friend kaisa hota hai` me share kar rhe hai. Bas ab dimag shant karke niche diye gaye points ko ache se padh kar samajhna hoga, jisse ki aapko pata chal sake ki ek acha boy friend kaisa hota hai aur yadi aapka already ek bf hai to vo acha hai ya….
EK ACHA BOYFRIEND KAISA HOTA HAI
To aaj hum janenge ki ek acha boyfriend kaisa hota hai, or usme kya kya quality honi chaiye? Jisse ki wo ek acha boyfriend saabit ho. To ye sab janne ke liye aapko bas niche diye gaye tips lp steps wise ache se padh kar unhe follow karna hai. Let’s start now…
1. Samne Kuch Aur Piche Kuch Aur Wala Insan Na Ho
Ladka jaisa hai waisa hi rahe, aisa na ho ki time aane par wo change ho jaye. Matlab, vo aapke sath bhi vaisa hi behave kare jaisa vo dusron saath behave karta hai. Ek banawati insaan par kabhi bhi bharosa nhi karna chahiye, kyunki vo kab badal jaaye kuch kha nhi ja sakta.
Jo use pasand ho wo wohi kare kisi ke bare me na sochta ho, ki logo ko uske kuch karne acha nahi lagta bas ye na soche. Jo logo ke samne showoff na kare or fir chahe uske paas kuch na ho. Ya kisi ko impress karne ke liye wo waisa ban jaye jaisa ki wo asal me hai hi nahi. Aise ladko ke sath ladkiyon ko kabhi honest relation nahi milta. Kyunki wo time aane par us ladki ko bhi chor dete hai jo unhe besak sacha pyaar karti ho.
2. Jo Sabke Sath Polite Acha Behave Kare
Ladkiyon ko sochna chahiye ki jo ladke polite hote hai, jaruri nahi hai ki wo boring ho. Kyunki jyadatar girls yhi sochti hai ki us type ke ladke boring hote hai or isliye wo unhe ignore kar deti hai. Lekin asal me wohi ladke hote hai jo ki serious relationship ke liye bane hote hai ya jo ki uska real matlab jante hai.
Ek tarah se unhe hi samajh hoti hai ki jab kabhi breakup hota hai to ladkiyon ko kitna dukh hota hai or jo is baat ki kadar bhi karte hai. Or aisa karne se pahle 100 baar sochte bhi hai ki aage is action se us ladki par kya farak padhega. Iske sath hi ladkiyon ke ilawa bhi wo baki sabhi ke sath polite behave hi karta ho, fir chahe uske samne koi waiter ho ya koi old insan. Isliye ladkiyon ko sochna chahiye ki polite ladke bhi boyfriend bnane ke kabil hote hai.
3. Jo Affectionate Moments ko Samajhta Ho
Waise to bahut tarah ke raste hote hai apni girlfriend ko apna pyaar jtane ke, lekin har boyfriend ka pyaar jtane ka alag or apna hi ek tarrika hota hai. Jyadatar ladke kum hi jtate hai ki unhe aapse pyaar hai ya wo aapki care karte. Lekin kuch hote hai jo ki har baat par aapko jtate hai ki wo aapse pyaar karte hai, lekin ye bhi acha nahi hota.
Ladkiyon ko ladko ka behave dekh kar hi samajh jana chahiye ki wo ladka aapki kitni care karta hai or sath hi wo ladka aapke liye kaisa feel karta hai. Aur aapke sath kaisa behave karta hai. Kyunki kuch baatein hamesha bolne wali nahi hoti isliye ladkiyon ko bhi ladko ki feelings ko samajhna chahiye.
Fir unhe judge karna chahiye or sochna chahiye ki wo ladka unke layak hai ki nahi. Isse aapka relationship bhi ache se chalega or is baat ko le kar aapko aapke relation me kabhi bhi koi problem nahi hogi. Ladke apni feeling kum hi show karte hi is mamle me fir chahe unke samne koi bhi ho jaise ki girlfriend, gharwale ya friends. Bas unke aapke sath kiye gaye behave or aapke liye unke taraf se ki gayi care or support hi unka aapke liye pyaar hota hai.
4. Jo Women Ki Respect Kare
Aaj-kal jis tarah se newspaper me, News me aur social media par rape ki news aati hai us hisab se to ladkiyan bilkul bhi secure nahi hai. Lekin aapko aisa ladka talash karna hai jo ki har tarah ki girls ya women ki respect karta ho. Sath hi janta bhi ho ki unke sath kis tarah se behave karna chahiye, jisse ki ladki ya koi women uske sath secure feel kare.
Kyunki kuch ladko ki wajah se bahut se sharif ladke hote hai jo ki badnam ho jaate hai. Or ladkiyan bhi unhe usi najariye se dekhti hai jaise ki kharab ladko ko dekha jata hai. Isiliye kha Jata hai ki kisi ko bhi itni jaldi judge nahi karna chaiye. Har kisi ko utna time to milna hi chahiye jisse ki aapko pata chal jaye ki ye ladka us kabil hai ya nahi.
5. Jo Ki Aap Par Trust Kare
Ek tarah se aaj-kal aisa time aa gya hai ki, agar koi ladki apne kisi ladke friend se baat kar rahi hai ya uske sath ghum rahi hai to uska boyfriend is baat ko lekar bahut jealous feel karne lagta hai ya bahut bada issue bana deta hai. Or sath me ye bhi sochne lagta hai ki uski girlfriend ka us ladke ke sath affair chal rha hai.
Jab ki aisa kuch nahi hota, ye bas trust karne ya na karne ki baat hai. Or jyadatar ladke aisa hi sochte hai, isliye ya to ladkiyon ko jab bhi apne kisi ladke friend se baat karni hoti hai ya koi kaam hota hai to pahle apne boyfriend ko btana padhta hai ya usse milte time apne boyfriend ko apne sath rakhna padhta hai.
Jisse ki baad me unme ladai na ho. Ya iske ilawa pahle se apne boyfriend se clear karle ki aapke friend circle me ladke bhi hai jo ki aapke friends hai or jinhe ki aap apne boyfriend se pahle hi milwa bhi sakte ho. Jisse ki baad me aapka boyfriend bilkul bhi jealous feel na kare, jab ki aap apne friends se baat kar rhi ho or isi ke sath wo aap par pura bharosa rakhenge.
Ya aapka hone wala boyfriend aisa hona chahiye jo ki aapko itna samajhta ho ki pahle to aapke har tarah ke friends ke sath jaan pehchan bnaye, aur sath hi aap dono ke beech me itni understanding rakhe ki kabhi bhi kisi or ki wajah se apne relationship me koi bhi darar na aane de. Jisse ki aapka relation kharab ho ya aap dono me us baat ko lekar behas ya ladayi ho.
6. Jo Aapki Feelings ki Care Karta Ho
Iska matlab ye nahi hai jo cheez aapko pasand nahi or ladke ko pasand hai, aap use wo karne se bilkul hi mna kardo. Iska simple sa matlab ye hai ki jaise agar aapka boyfriend galat logo ke sath rehta ya ghumta hai to use wo karne se mana karo. Or jo ki aapki ye baat samjhe ki aap use kis level me bol rahi ho.
Or fir wo waisa hi kare jisse ki aap dono ki life sahi rahe aage chal kar bhi. Matlab ki jo aapki is baat ko samajh kar apne future ke bare me soche. Iske sath hi ladkiyon ko bhi is baat ka fayda nahi uthana chahiye agar aapka boyfriend aapki khushi ke liye compromise karne ko taiyar ho jata hai.
Kyunki jyadatar ladkiyan isi baat ka fayda utha kar apne boyfriend ko apne ishare par nachati hai. Or baad me isi karan unka ka relation bilkul khatam ho jata hai. Or fir wo pachtate hai isliye aapko bhi unka sath dena chahiye, khas kar tab jab wo aapki khushi ke liye compromise kar rha ho. Iske baad jo ki aapki life or aap me puri tarah se interest le or sath hi aapko har jagah support kare.
Agar wo aap me interest lene me katrata hai ya use aapke sath rehne ya ghumne me sharam aati hai to us relationship ko tabhi kahtam kar dene me hi aapki bhalayi hai. Kyunki agar wo aap me interest hi nahi le rha ya aapko support nahi kar sakta to iska malab ki wo aapke liye bilkul bhi serious nahi hai.
Isiliye is baat ka khass dhyaan rakhe ki jo aapko hamesha support kare fir chahe wo koi khel ka maidan ho ya aapka koi kaam ho. Or sath hi jo aapki har cheez me interest le jaise aapke bare me janne ki icha jtata rahe or aapki pasand or na pasand ka khyaal rakhe. Iske sath hi agar aap kuch galat karti ho to aapko tokke or samajhaye ki aap galat ho. Fir aapko sahi raste par bhi le kar jaye or aapko puri tarah se support kare.
7. Jo Aapko Apni Puri Space De
Agar aap kahi bahar jana chahti ho, apni kisi or friend ke sath to wo aap par kisi bhi trah ki koi rok tok na lgaye. Balki agar aap busy ho to wo bhi apna kuch kaam kar le ya apne dosto ke sath kahi ghum le. Bas ladka aisa ho ki jo aapke ek baar bolne par samajh jaye ki – Haan aapki ek apni bhi life hai or is cheez me usko jyada interfere nahi karna chahiye.
Balki use khushi honi chaiye ki aap apna kuch khud karne ja rahi ho ya independent type ke ho. Bas ladka aisa na ho ki jo aapko baar baar bole ki mere sath chalo or ghumo and all. Bas jo ki aapki feelings janta ho or aap par trust bhi karta ho puri tarah se. Jo ki space ka matlab janta ho bas.
To friends ye the kuch lajawab tips ye janne ke liye ki, Acha boyfriend kaisa hota hai. Umeed hai ki aapne in tips ko acchi tarah se padh kar samajh liya hoga. Agar fir bhi aapke mann me kisi bhi tarah ka koi doubt hai ya aapko Life se judi kisi problem me humari help chahiye, to aap niche comment karke humse apni koi bhi problem share kar sakte hai. Hume bhi aapki help karne me khushi hogi.
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