Hello guys, kaise hai aap sab? Humare ek Dost ne comment me ek swaal pucha ki “kisi ladki ke mann me apne liye pyar kaise laye”. Dekho friends har ladki ki aur ladke ki apni-2 choices hoti hai, jaruri nahi ki aap jise pyar karte hai wo bhi aapko pyar kare ya uske mann me bhi wahi feelings aaye. But fir bhi hum try to kar sakte hai kisi ke mann me apni jagaah bnane ki aur kya pata aapke liye uske mann me jagaah bhi ban jaye. Apne ye to suna hi hoga ‘nothing is impossible.’
Kisi ke mann me jagaah bnana koi mushkil kaam nahi bas aapko meri in baton ka ache se dhyaan mein rakhna hai jo main abhi aapko btane jaa rhe hai. Agar aap kisi ladki ko bahut pyaar karte hai aur wo aapko pyaar nahi karti ya aap me use koi interest nahi aur aap chahte hai wo bhi aapko pyar karne lag jaye.
Agar wo aapko ye kahe ki wo relationship ke liye ready nahi hai ya wo aapko aise nazariye se nahi dekhti , aapko as a friend hi maanti hai to hum aapko btate hai ki kaise kisi ke mann me apne liye pyar laye.
किसी के मन में अपने लिए प्यार कैसे लाये?
KHUD PAR VISHWAAS RAKHE
Sabse pahle to aapko khud par vishwaas hona chahiye ki aap uske mann me apne liye pyar jagaah sakte hai. Make sure ki aapko yahi ladki chahiye hai aur kyun? Agar aapko khud par vishwaas nahi hai to khud ko motivate kare. Khud par bharosa kare aur apne mann ko strong bnaye. Jab tak aap apne par vishwaas naghi rakhoge tab tak aap ye kaam nahi kar paoge.
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KHUD KO NOTICE KARWAYE
Sabse pahle to aapko khud ko notice karwana hoga. Khud ko notice karwao ki jisse usko pata chal jaye ki aap usko like karte ho. Jab tak aap notice nahi karwaoge khud ko tab tak wo aapko notice nahi karegi. Relax raho aur confident raho aur vaise bhi jin me confidence nahi hota girls unse duri bnaye rakhti hai.
KHUD KO LADKIYON KE LIYE ATTRACTIVE BNAYE
One of the best way, jo ladki aapko notice karne lag jaye, ki aap apne aap ko jyada attractive bnaye aur bane. Chote se changes se aap jyada attractive to nahi ban jaoge par but aapka khud ka self-confidence badh jayega. Agar aap ek new change ke sath uske samne jayenge to wo vaise bhi impress ho jayegi. Apne behaviour me change laoge jo use pasand aye to ye aapke liye kaafi helpful rahega.
Khud ko clean rakho. Daily apne clothes change karo. Nahi to jab bhi aap uske samne jaate ho to ache se ready ho kar jaye. logo se ache se behave karo aur ek gentle person ke jaise raho. ladkiyan ladko ki body bohot pasand karti hai. jinki body achi hoti hai unko kaafi pasand karti hai ladkiyan, apne aap ko attractive bnana chahte ho to apni body achi bnao aur fir dekho kaise ladkiyan aapko dekhti hai. I am sure aapko khud farak mehsus hoga apni pahle wali life me aur attractive body bnane ke baad.
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SIGNALS DO
Show karo ki aap use like karte ho. Chaahe aap ishaaron(signals) se karo agar wo aapse baat nahi karti hai to, agar wo aapse baate karti hai ya aapki pahle se friend hai to usse baato-2 me signals do jisse usko pata chal jaye ki aap usko like karte ho.
Flirt karne ki try karo aur uska responce dekho kaisa hai agar wo aapki in harkaton se bura feel nahi karti to matlab aapko ek signal to mil hi gya ki wo aapki har cheez ko like karti hai bas aapko ye sab continue rakhna hoga.
USKE FRIENDS KO APNA FRIEND BNAYE
Agar aap kisi ko impress karna chahte hai, to aise bano jisse log aapko like kare. Agar aap ek person ko impress kar dete ho to aise chain banti chali jati hai. Agar uske friends aapke bare me baat karte hai to ye aapke liye ek bonus hai, jisse aapki apne aap ek image ban jayegi uske liye.
Uske friends ke sath friendship karo, jisse aap uske notice me aa jayenge aur agar ek baar aap unke notice me aa gaye to aap usse asaani se baat kar sakte hai. Uske friends se uske bare me pucho, aur aapko pta hai friends se jyada ache se koi aur nahi janta. Aur agar wo aapki pahle se hi friend hai to bas aapko uske friends ke saamne apni ek alag image bnani hai.
Uski friends se respect se aur gently baat karo jisse uski friends ke nazaron me aapki respect badh jayegi aur agar aapki respect unki nazaron me badh gayi to adhi help to wahi kar dengi. Uske baad aap uski friends ko uske bare me btao jise aap pyar karte hai.
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BAAT KAISE KARE?
Jab bhi aap usse baat karte hai to ek achi si smile ke sath kare. Jab bhi koi baat start karte ho to uska naam le kar he baat start karo, agar aap usse kuch puch rahe ho ya usko kuch bta rahe ho to usse questions karo ki uski kya likes hai aur kya dislikes hai.
Aur uske har baat ko interestingly suno jisse usko lagega aap usme interest le rahe ho. But be careful aap apni conversation ko interview me mat change kar dena, questions pucho but as a friend. Baat karte -2 beech-2 me jokes bhi maro.
Ladki kabhi bhi bore naa ho isliye usse puchte raho ki kya wo aapki baato se bore to nahi ho rahi, lekin fir bhi girls aise nahi bolegi ki wo bore ho rahi hai aapko uski body language aur behaviour se pata lgana hoga. Us topic par baat mat karo jisse wo bore ho rahi ho. Jab bhi wo koi baat bta rahi ho to usko interrupt mat karo. Jab uski baat khatam ho jaye tab uske baad aap bolo.
USKI PASAND APNI BNAO
Usse uski pasand ko pucho aur un pasandida cheezo ka khyaal rakho. Uski har pasand aur naa pasand cheez ko apna bna lo. Agar aapko lagta hai ki aap me aur usme koi common cheez nahi hai jo aapko bhi pasand hai aur usko bhi ya jo aapko naa pasand hai aur usko bhi, to aisi cheez ko find karo.
Ussko surprise dete raho. Jaise koi special day par usko wish karo ya usko gift do. Usko compliments do uske looks ke liye, uski personality ke liye aur uske dressing par ki ‘aj wo kaisi lag rahi hai’. Kuch alag, carzy aur unexpected thing bhi karo jisse aap apne aapko thoda different bhi show kar sakte ho but remember that kuch jyada hi crazy things mat karne lag jana jisse wo aapko psycho samjhne lag jaye.
Usko time do. Uski har cheez me specially study me uski help karo. Sabse badi cheez usse jhuth mat bolo kyuki relation me trust bahut jaruri hota hai agar trust ek baar chala jaye to dobara trust karna bahut difficult hota hai.
BE CASUAL
Agar aap usko like karte ho aur wo bhi aapko like karti hai par wo nervous hai commitment ke liye to aapko apna relation casually maintain kar ke rakhna hoga. Usse har baat ke liye open raho jisse wo aapko apni feelings bhi bataayegi. Girls ko open hone me time lagta hai to thoda time do aur usse casually baat karte raho. Uski help karo, agar wo aapko apni help karne se manaa karti hai to bhi indirectly uski help karo.
To humare bhagton agar aap kisi ko pyar karte hai aur aap chahte hai wo bhi aapkolike karne lag jaye to in tips ko jarur follow karo isseuske mann me aapke liye pyar grow ho jayega aur agar koi bhi problem aaye to humse jarur puche. Hum apni bhagton ki sadaa help karte hai.